Because frankly I don't care

Does he want to hook up again quiz

If you want

Sometimes we go to a bar or something first. Either that or he's just plain selfish. If building an emotional connection with you isn't on his to-do list, then he doesn't want you to be his girlfriend. He doesn't want to be seen with you, because he doesn't want to lose his chances with any other women out there. It's not until after we've been hooking up for a while that I would even know whether or not I'd be interested in a relationship with her.

Of course, sex isn't the only thing you should be talking about. This is where Reddit comes in.

It's then up to her to decide if that's what she wants or not. If you want to test him to see if he's only sticking around to get laid, then tell him that you're planning on waiting a while. However, their tricks can't fool you forever. If I'm just trying to hook up then I'll try to initiate sex upon first meeting you. He'd bring you out to dinner, to the mall, and to his friend's parties without hesitation, because he'd want to show the world how lucky he is to have a wonderful woman like you.

It's then up to her to

But as a general rule with girls I purely want to hook up with, I just flirt hard, subtle hip touches, lots of eye contact, I will stand really close to her etc. Girls I just want to hook up with will never meet my family.

Men should tell us exactly what they're looking for before they get us into bed with them, but some of them use our naivety to their advantage. He wouldn't have any reason to stick around. He'll be out the door before you finish getting dressed. He'd also tell you about how much he loved your laugh, the sound of your voice, and your sense of humor.